It's the most wonderful time of the year! Especially for sales on dance products. Check out our list below of the current sales on all things ballroom dance related.

​It's that time of year again! Where the best deals can be had on everything from dance shoes to practice wear to makeup to sparkly accessories. We've compiled a list of all the sales in the ballroom world in one convenient spot! Check back throughout the weekend as we'll be keeping our list updated until the last sale ends! Happy shopping and happy dancing!
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​Champions choose Aida. That's the catchy slogan that started popping up all over my Facebook news feed in the past year. I began hearing about Aida shoes from the Pros in my studio and I noticed the Aida booth at more and more competitions. What was so amazing about these shoes that I suddenly couldn't turn a corner in the dance world without bumping into Aidas? Well, I decided to invest in a few pairs and find out for myself. For the past three months, I've worn my Aida shoes for almost every practice and at three comps, and I'm happy to say they were worth every penny!

What other brands have you worn?
Before jumping into my experience with Aida shoes, let me provide some quick context for what I am comparing them to. For the past few years, I've worn Supadance shoes for both smooth and rhythm, and Ray Rose practice shoes. Before that, while I was still deciding how much of a financial commitment I wanted to make with my dance shoes, I wore some Arthur Murray brand shoes and Stephanie dance shoes.

The Pros

• Custom fit - I have weird feet. They're short in length, wide in the front, and narrow in the heel. And while that combination of peculiarities may be unique to me, I know many others who have odd quirks to their feet. Whether they're super narrow, two different sizes, or ridiculously high in the arches, everyone has different feet, so it would make sense for everyone to have different shoes. Now I've ordered "custom" shoes before. In fact, I thought I had a pretty good fit with my last pair of Supadance shoes. I went on the Supadance website, chose my size, width, heel height and heel shape, then signed off on the extra charge and zero return policy since my requirements were special order. It wasn't until I had an Aida rep measure my feet, have me try on 10 different pairs of shoes (no exaggeration), and walk me around in them did I realize what I had been missing out on. I discovered my feet were actually a full cm shorter in length than I had been ordering, and I needed a triple wide for the front of my foot to be comfortable in rhythm (a width that I actually haven't seen offered by other companies).

• Custom fit continued ​- ​Having shoes that feel like they are molded to my feet has made such a difference in my dancing and my level of comfort. I'm far less wobbly now that my foot is actually against the back of the shoe, and I can actually spread my toes out when I take a step to have more balance. The number of features they can customize on the shoe is incredible and the best part about going to their booth was they had tons of the features available for me to figure out what combination worked best. In the past, I've gone to vendors at comps and asked if I could try on shoes in a wide to know if I needed wide or double wide. Often I was met with the response that they didn't have any with them, so I was once again left guessing. At Aida, they had both wide and double wide for me to try on. And when the double wide was too small and they recommended the triple wide, they guaranteed me that they would fit or they would exchange them for free since I couldn't try them on. That guarantee was so comforting having had past experiences where I've bought shoes that ended up not fitting and being unable to return. Plus, it turns out they were right, so I didn't need to take them up on it :)
• Stability - These shoes feel solid! If you read the company's website or ask their reps, they'll explain to you the science behind the heel placement and how they balance the shoes, but the short story is these shoes helped me feel more connected to the ground and like my weight was finally in the right place on my foot. I've noticed my balance has improved (though these shoes won't magically fix all your balance issues if you're not doing all the proper dance-y things :)) and I'm more stable when I take a step.
• Cushioning - Now, I did something I would never recommend, and I am still a little shocked I did. I wore my smooth shoes from Aida at the Superstars comp without breaking them in first. I bought them, put them on my feet, and hit the floor. Before you call me crazy, I promise I had a reason. I was dealing with a foot injury, and the pressure from pressing into the floor made the pain worse. My Aida shoes had much more padding than the shoes I had been wearing, so I decided to try them out. I figured it couldn't be any worse, so I put some KT tape around my heel and the front of my shoe (where I would typically get blisters), then went out for my first smooth heats. The difference these shoes made was incredible! My pain was minimized and it felt like I was stepping on little cushions. I was able to get through the competition successfully before I took a break to let my foot heal. While I would have stubbornly danced through the pain (note: I don't condone this, I'm just apparently a masochist) even in my old shoes, the Aida shoes made the experience much better. Once I was able to get back to dancing, I noticed the padding on the shoes didn't flatten out, and even after a couple of months in them, my shoes are still just as comfortable as when I first put them on.

The Cons

• $$$ - At $220 a pair, these are probably the most expensive dance shoes I've seen. That being said, I think they're worth every penny. Aside from all the benefits listed above, if you've ever ordered a new style of shoes and gone through the pain of shipping them back and forth to the company, then you know how quickly those shipping costs add up. If you get fit for your Aidas with one of their reps, you'll know you're getting the right fit and avoid all shipping costs. Plus they do run the occasional sale. They recently had one for Memorial Day and when I spoke to one of their sales reps he told me they run their best specials around Black Friday - so if you plan in advance you can snag them for a little less. 
• Flexibility - For the first few weeks wearing my shoes, they were a little stiffer than my previous Supadance and Ray Rose shoes. I heard similar things from some of the Pros I spoke to about their shoes. After those first few weeks though, I found that I was able to point my feet in them without as much effort and the flexibility was comparable to my other shoes.
• Locations - There aren't tons of studios that carry these shoes and they aren't at every comp, so it can be challenging to find a location to go try on new shoes. That being said, once you know your style and customizations, you can re-order online. Another challenge to contend with is how popular their booth is when you can get to it. My first time trying to get Aida shoes was actually at USDC (September) last year. There were so many Pros clamoring to get their shoes that I was passed over several times, and I ended up leaving quite disappointed. Several of my other friends have had this experience as well. I recommend going in the middle of the day when there are fewer people around and they aren't getting ready to pack up for the evening. At Superstars, I visited the Aida booth again (this time at around 11 am) and had a totally different experience. The rep was able to spend 20 minutes fitting my feet and having me try on different shoes until I found the perfect pairs.

Overall Recommendation
While I do miss the easy slip-on buckle of my Supadance shoes and the prettier flesh color (hint, hint, Aida if you're looking for new features to add!), I don't think I'll ever switch again. These shoes delivered on what they promised and fixed problems I didn't even realize were coming from my shoes! The improved feeling of stability, perfect fit and extra comfort of these shoes make them my new favorite shoes and worth the investment. I highly recommend stopping by their booth at the next competition in your area and trying on a pair for yourself. 

Feel free to share your own thoughts on Aida shoes in the comment section below, or whatever your favorite brand may be. And as always, until next time, happy dancing!

As I get ready to coach with the amazing Jonathan Roberts this week, I thought about some of the things I consider before taking a coaching session and compiled them for you! But before you read on, if you're wondering what a coaching is or looking for the best way to prepare for one, check out our Pro interviews for more information!

• Decide what you want to work on ahead of time. Do you want a new routine? Are you struggling with one dance in particular that you need extra help with? Having a specific area of focus can make your session more productive. Discuss with your instructor what you’d like to work on, or if you’re uncertain, ask your instructor what they think would be best.
• Use your coaches to their strengths. If a coach is an accomplished Rhythm dancer, then it might make more sense to work with them on one of your Rhythm or Latin routines. Now that’s not to say they couldn’t help you in another style since usually, coaches are very flexible and able to assist in most situations, but they probably have more experience and in-depth knowledge of the styles they’ve worked in more extensively. If you’re not familiar with the coach that’s visiting, look them up online or ask your instructor.
• Set your expectations accordingly. Know how many sessions you have booked with the coach and talk with you instructor about what you can expect to accomplish in that amount of time. You’re not going to be able to fix all of your problems in a 45-minute session, so decide what’s most important to you and communicate that to your instructor.
• Budget ahead of time. Coaches can be very expensive, so figure out what your budget is and discuss with your instructor how many sessions make sense for you. Many times, just one is enough to choreograph a new basic routine or fix a couple of problem areas. Keep in mind that your instructor also needs to be paid for their time during the coaching, so in addition to the cost of the coach, you’ll also be paying for a lesson.

I hope these tips help you get the most out of working with some of the great coaches out there, and please feel free to share your own tips in the comments! Until next time, happy coaching and happy dancing!

Ever since starting ballroom dancing I've been on the search for the perfect lipstick. Through showcases and competitions I've tried many brands: cheap and expensive; matte and glossy; liquid and solid, yet I was never truly satisfied until September of 2015. What happened in September of 2015 you ask? Well LA Splash launched their line of Disney princess lipsticks! I purchased 3 different shades without even thinking about dance; I just simply needed to own Disney lipstick! Much to my surprise, they ended up being the perfect lipstick for dancing.

Why did you hold out on us?
Now you may be thinking, "September of 2015! Why didn't you mention this sooner?!" The truth is, I was afraid to recommend it knowing I hadn't tried the latest and greatest lipsticks; however, this past weekend I finally got around to testing out the last few brands I wanted to compare, and I can confidently report that LA Splash was the clear winner. During my time as a dancer, I've tried Wet N' Wild, Clinique, Urban Decay, Too Faced, Bare Minerals, and the final brands I tried this weekend were Stila, Tarte, and Smashbox. The biggest problem with all these lipsticks was staying power. I found that after an hour or so most of the lipsticks had faded or smudged, but I left the LA Splash color on my hand for two days (and I washed my hands and showered numerous times during the weekend) and by Monday morning it still looked good!

​The Pros

• As I mentioned before, this lipstick lasts! I have put it on at 8 am for a competition and despite eating, drinking, and sweating all day it still looks perfect at 8 pm.
• No smudging! I can wipe my mouth with a napkin, kiss my boyfriend, accidentally get hit by another dancer's enthusiastic arm styling and there are no smears. The lipstick doesn't bleed into the little cracks that extend from my lips onto my face or rub off. I've never had it get on my teeth, which I'm always super grateful for when I look at my pictures!
• The color stays true! Several of the red lipsticks I've tried in the past end up looking more pink than red after a couple of hours of wear, but the LA Splash lipstick colors remained the same from when I first applied until when I finally removed them at the end of the night.
• Quick and easy application! The brush applicator makes it really easy to precisely line your lips then fill in with the color. The liquid lipstick glides on, only requires one coat, and dries in minutes.

The Cons

• This lipstick lasts! While this is by far the biggest pro it also means you definitely need some quality makeup remover to take it off at the end of the night.
• Dried out lips. Since this is a matte lipstick, it can steal some of the moisture from your lips. I recommend following LA Splash's tip: "Exfoliate and moisturize lips 15-20 minutes prior to application."
• LA Splash doesn't have countrywide stores or distributors. This means that you may not be able to try on the color you want prior to purchasing. I recommend doing a Google image search for the color that you're interested in. The search should bring up photos of real people wearing the lipstick, so you can see what it looks like in different lighting and with different skin tones.
• $$$. At $14 a pop, this isn't the cheapest lipstick. If you order from LA Splash's site they do have free shipping with no minimum, which makes the price a little less painful. You can also find the lipstick on Amazon (link below) for less money, and as a bonus, they sometimes have colors in stock that LA Splash is sold out of on their site.

Overall Recommendation
The StudioShine Lip Lustre is the clear winner in my book. I've used it for all of my performances and competitions for the past year and a half, and have never been disappointed in how it's held up. When I think about all of the things I tend to worry about before dancing, it's wonderful to not have to think about reapplying my lipstick or cleaning up smudges.

Hopefully this review has helped you, and please feel free to share in the comments if you have your own favorite lipstick! I'll continue to evaluate new lipsticks as they come out and report back if I ever find a better product. Until then, happy dancing!

No ballroom look is complete without a little jewelry! However, even something as simple as a bangle can cost you anywhere from $60 - $80 per bangle from most Dancesport jewelry companies. That's why I've put together a simple how-to for creating some of your own bling for a fraction of the cost! 

What you need:

• Boning
• Spandex (SpandexWorld.com, SpandexHouse.com, or Local fabric shop) - I recommend choosing a color to match your stones or nude if you're using crystal or crystal AB
• E6000
• Rhinestones (RhinestoneGuy.com) - I recommend size 16ss for these bangles
• Pick Me Up tool
• Binder clips
• Scissors

Click on the images if you need to order any of the items for the project.

How much time it takes:

• Working time = ~30 minutes/bangle (mostly depending on how quickly you stone)
• Drying time = 84 hours (split into one 12-hour period and one 72-hour period)

Steps:
​1. Measure around the widest part of your hand. This will become the circumference of your bangle.

2. Measure out the boning so it’s as long as your hand measurement. BEFORE cutting, bend the boning into a bangle and make sure you can slip your hand through it. If your measurement is a little off (too big or too small) adjust accordingly.

3. Cut a piece of the boning the length of the measurement you just took (with any adjustments) PLUS an additional inch for overlap.

4. Apply E6000 to 1 inch of the boning and overlap the two ends.

5. Clip the center of the overlap with one of the binder clips. 

6. Let it dry for at least 12 hours. E6000 takes 24 to 72 hours to fully set, but after about 12 it should be dry enough to continue making your bangle. In the meantime, you can cut your fabric.

7. Cut a piece of your spandex that is the length of your measurement PLUS .5” for overlap, and 1.25” wide (assuming you are using the .5” boning). This allows the fabric to wrap around the entire bangle and overlap on the inside.

8. Remove the clips from the boning once the glue has dried sufficiently.

9. Apply a layer of E6000 to the inside of the bangle. It doesn’t have to be pretty and it doesn’t have to be super thick. You just need enough to cover the surface inside.

10. Press one side of your material along the inside, aligning the fabric edge to the edge of the boning. When you get to the overlap you can dab a little extra E6000 on whichever end is going to be on the bottom and press the other end on top.

11. Roll the rest of your material around the bangle until the free edge is back along the inside.

12. Apply another layer of E6000 to the inside of the bangle. You only need to cover half the width closest to your free fabric.

13. Press down the free edge of the fabric, lightly pulling so the fabric is snug around the boning.

14. Apply a dab of E6000 to the overlap on the bottom piece of fabric.

15. Begin stoning!

16. Work in small sections and apply E6000 across the outside of your bangle. This is so your glue doesn’t dry faster than you can place stones on it.

17. Place your stones on a mat, plate or another contained surface where you can spread them out in a layer. This makes it easier to pick up the stones one by one.

18. Press the sticky side of your Pick Me Up tool on the top of the rhinestone (the non-flat side). The rhinestone should stick to your tool as you lift it and move it to the bangle. It may take a little practice to get the right amount of pressure, but you shouldn’t have to press too hard to grab the rhinestone.

19. Press the rhinestone into the E6000. Continue placing rhinestones across in a row (I’ve found the row will comfortably fit 3 16ss rhinestones). Once you’ve finished a row, start the next.

20. Continue around the bangle until you’ve returned to your starting point. If there’s a little extra space between your first and last row of stones, then simply move the last row of stones a little closer to the first row to eliminate some of the extra gap.

21. Let dry for 72 hours.

22. Voila, you’re done!

Now if you’re more comfortable sewing there is a similar tutorial found here. I recommend switching back once you’ve sewn the bangles, as the glue used isn’t as strong as E6000 and the method for stoning is more time-consuming.

And of course, if you aren't feeling crafty and would rather purchase ballroom jewelry, feel free to check out our Etsy shop for some reasonably priced bracelets!

Let us know how your bangles come out and feel free to share pictures of your beautiful creations! We can never get enough sparkle! Until next time, happy dancing and happy stoning!

Check out some of the latest sales for your ballroom needs!

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As you may have guessed from the blog name, I love sparkles! So naturally, I've been dying to try out the glitter cut crease makeup look for competition. I finally got the opportunity this past week to try it out and experiment with the LA Splash Cosmetics crystallized glitter (which I bought on sale over the Thanksgiving holiday!) at an in-studio performance. The look and the glitter was a success! I received numerous compliments on my makeup and I largely attribute that to the glitter.

The Problems with Glitter
Despite buying the glitter when it was on sale during Black Friday, I didn't try it out until now for one simple reason: I was scared! I have used glitter in the past, both some inexpensive store brands and Too Faced Glamour Dust glitter, and had poor results. While the glitter was super sparkly and pretty, I found that I had to use a lot of it; no matter how much glitter glue I used, it would inevitably get in my eyes - making it look like I was crying during the performance.  Tears streaming down your face isn't a great look when you're trying to be sexy in Rumba.

The Pros
What I loved about the crystallized glitter was it had amazing coverage. I put on a light coat of white eye shadow and then applied Urban Decay's Bondage primer (another amazing product!) before applying the glitter. Then I I used 3 dabs of glitter and was done! It was super simple and quick. I recommend using a brush with compact bristles so you can pick up the glitter and press it on without losing a bunch. The lovely folks at Ulta recommended a concealer brush, but I found a small eye shadow brush that worked well, too.

The other great part about this glitter was it stayed in place! It didn't fall into my eyelashes and eyes every time I blinked. I attribute this mostly to the glitter, because I used the Bondage primer with the other glitters, too, and had no luck. It stayed on for the whole evening and then easily wiped off with makeup remover. I don't think I could ask for more! 

The Cons
At about $12 a container, this isn't the cheapest glitter. I feel it's worth the money though, especially since I expect it will last me quite some time given how little I had to use. LA Splash runs sales every so often (I got mine for $10 on Black Friday), or if you buy it from Amazon you can bundle it with other products you normally purchase on Amazon and get free shipping. 

Overall Recommendation
This glitter was a clear winner over the other brands I've tried. It comes in numerous colors (I tried the Fuzzy Flamingo) so you can pick something that matches your eyes or your dresses for performances, competitions, or just a fun night out dancing! I loved the coverage and staying power, and will be using it for my first competition this year, Superstars! I'll be trying out the Mai Tai color for my smooth look and will be sure to post pictures and let you know how it holds up to all-day wear. Until then stay sparkly and happy dancing!

Author: D. Schoeppner
Tension. Fear. Cold hands. Sweaty palms. A racing mind about making mistakes. Will I remember that new part of the routine? I don’t want to disappoint my instructor. I want to perform well for my family and friends, judges and audience. I want to place well among the competition. Panic sets in. I have experienced each of these before a performance and competition, just as many of my dance friends, have experienced. It affects not just amateurs but professionals too. All these things can be summed up in one word, “anxiety.”

In this blog post I hope to pass along a few tips that I have found to be very beneficial in coping with, and even defeating, my anxiety about performing and competing on the dance floor. I hope this helps you, too.

​Anxiety is commonly defined as “a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease, typically about an imminent event or something with an uncertain outcome.” It is based in our psychological thoughts about the imminent event and often leads to performing below your potential.

Some people suggest that you should breathe to calm yourself, simply relax, or just be confident. Although well intended, these have never really helped me and often frustrated me further. What I needed was a practical strategy beyond these superficial ideas of controlling my anxiety. One that can teach me how to gain control of my mind, and think differently by cutting to the root cause of the matter. But, how do I find such a strategy, then implement it?

What I stumbled across, and found to be effective, comes not from the ballroom community, but leveraging two concepts from other environments. The first comes from a world class Olympic Gold Medalist and the second is from the psychological training of mindfulness. By bringing these concepts together, I’ve successfully overcome my anxiety.

First concept - Mindfulness is defined as “a mental state achieved by focusing one's awareness on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one's feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations.”
Mindfulness practices were inspired mainly by teachings from the Eastern World and have been adopted by many individuals, sports professionals such as Phil Jackson’s Chicago Bulls and LA Lakers as well as the corporate workplaces such as Google, Target, Goldman Sachs, and Aetna.

Jon Kabat-Zinn is Professor of Medicine Emeritus and creator of the Stress Reduction Clinic and the Center for Mindfulness in Medicine, Health Care, and Society at the University of Massachusetts Medical School. He says that mindfulness teaches you to be in the moment without projecting from the past or into the future. The present moment often gets squeezed out because we are focused on past mistakes or future results.

Your mind can only think about one thing at a time. So use your mind to stay focused on the moment, and think about what you need to perform your best. Don’t let your mind think of anything but ‘now.’ There will be plenty of time after the performance or competition to review and assess your performance and plan to improve it.

Second concept – A matter of perspective. Lenny Bassham, an American sports shooter who won a gold medal in the 1976 Summer Olympics, is author of the book With Winning in Mind and founder of Mental Management Systems LLC. He taught me that, to improve your performance, there are only a few things you have to accept. And if you accept them, you create a new and different attitude toward your performance and defeating anxiety.

He says: Everything that happens to you in life happens for a positive reason, if you look for it. Everything that happens needs to happen, because I know that only two things can happen to me. Either I win or I learn. Either I perform well, succeed and feel great about that, or I’m shown something that I absolutely need to see and experience in order to move forward.

When do we learn? We don’t learn much when everything goes right. Lenny said that every champion he ever met says the same thing: you learn more when you fail than when you perform well. We tend to learn when we struggle, when we realize that things didn’t go well because I didn’t train well on that item.

This does not mean you should deliberately fail. You don’t have to do that; life will throw you enough curves. Having the right attitude when you do have a bad performance is critical to your learning and knowing what to work on and where to improve. What happens to you in life doesn’t matter; what you do about it does.

To beat anxiety, go into the performance or competition with this attitude: Whatever happens to me needs to happen so that I can perform well or learn where I still need to improve. If you weren’t trying to improve, you wouldn’t be taking lessons and coaching.

SUMMARY:

1. Mindfulness (focus on the present moment). Focus your mind on the present moment, the now, not about what happened in the past or what the audience, judges, instructor or yourself might think after the fact. Let those thoughts about the past and future go and be in the moment with complete focus on your performance without any attachment to the result.
2. Attitude perspective. Everything that happens during your performance needs to happen. And only two things can result. Either you perform well/win and you can be proud of your accomplishment, or you learn what to improve upon. Either way you look at it, you win. This is what is called a win-win attitude perspective!

HELPFUL RESOURCES:

Mindfulness:

• What is Mindfulness? By Jon Kabat-Zinn.

• 60 Minutes Mindfulness Episode Correspondent Anderson Cooper investigates the benefits of practicing mindfulness techniques on the brain and body.
• Phil Jackson on mindfulness training of his NBA championship Chicago Bulls and LA Lakers teams.
• Stephanie "Steph" Davis on fear. She is one of the world's leading female rock climbers, BASE jumper, and wingsuit flyer who talks about her inside game and fear.
• Corporations’ Newest Productivity Hack: Meditation by Joe Pinsker

Lenny Bassham:

• How to eliminate fear forever and deal with pressure in competition a short discussion by Lenny Bassham
• An hour interview: With Winning in Mind with Lanny Bassham by Brian Johnson

Additional perspectives about managing anxiety from the dance community:

• YouTube video: Overcoming Performance Anxiety & Stage Fright by Kathryn (Katy) Morgan, a former ballerina with the New York City Ballet.
• Dancecompreview.com article: DanceSport Competition Performance Anxiety by Egor Shalvarov.
• Sport Psychology for Competitive Dancers by Joel Minden.
• Dancemania.biz article: How to deal with nerves before a performance by Sophie.
• Ballroom Dance and Psychology is a unique slide presentation by Elise Jones
• Article in Sport Psychologist, Performance Enhancement for Ballroom Dancers: Psychological Perspectives by Patsy Tremayne and Debra A. Ballinger

Now that the turkey is digested and our pants are a little tighter, it's time to start thinking about shopping for the holiday season. Whether you're shopping for yourself or others, this is the best time of year to get great deals! However, it can be a bit overwhelming to go through the hundreds of emails, flyers, ads, and commercials from companies all insisting that they have the best prices. To make things a little easier I've compiled a list of all the dance related sales I could find below. I'll be keeping the list up to date throughout the holiday weekend, so check back often for the latest sale updates! Happy shopping and happy dancing!